Wednesday, April 9, 2008
Its OK to be Vulnerable!
I don't understand why some people think it is unacceptable to show your vulnerable side once in a while... what happens if you show? why do people fear others will consider you are weak? what's wrong in showing you can be weak too sometimes? its very natural...Honestly i can't understand. I was talking to someone very close to me and felt how that person was trying to suppress their feelings by saying.."yea it will be there and i will feel better in a few days time".. what was going through that person's mind? "No-no i should not say anything that will make him feel bad and he will start worrying and thinking" I mean how unselfish can people be? is it valid? is it worth it? makes me feel i am not the same... should I be? isn't it my responsibility to give what i get? or what they deserve at least? I am all confused! as ever...
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Sheds, it's about time you gave up on holding your values to judge others. Each is his/her own. Every person - vulnerable or otherwise - has his/her own inbuild mechanism to react to love, hate, joy, acceptance, jealousy, happiness, tears, fear, regret, well, basically to everything life has on offer.
Once you can let the other person be himself/herself and ACCEPT that as the FACT OF LIFE, the problem is solved and you can continue to be VULNERABLE, HAPPY, CONFUSED, HAPPY and the other person is bound to respect you for that!
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